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Coquette is a feminine aesthetic that encompasses similar feminine sub-aesthetics, generally associated with Lana Del Rey and popular among teenage girls. This page serves as an index for the various sub-aesthetics that can be categorized under Coquette, providing brief explanations and a gallery.
The aesthetic evolved from a mid-2010s Tumblr community centered on the persona of the Nymphet—a sexually precocious young girl who seduces older men, as portrayed by the unreliable narrator in Vladimir Nabokov's Lolita.[1] The name was subsequently changed to "coquette" to circumvent bans on the term "Nymphet" on many social media platforms. "Coquette" is a French word referring to an attractive, flirtatious young woman (distinct from "little girl"), and this Nymphet influence differentiates newer Coquette subtypes from other similar girly aesthetics.
It is important to note that the majority of those identifying with the Nymphet persona do not support the sexualization of young girls; instead, their focus is often on age gaps and themes of "daddy issues." However, due to mass-tagging and the prevalence of the Nymphet community on Tumblr, many photos unrelated to the novel or film's aesthetic were tagged under "Coquette."
Currently, "Coquette" functions as a broad search term for a hyper-feminine aesthetic that incorporates elements of youth and teenage girlhood, inspired by the original Nymphet aesthetic. The visual elements of the various sub-aesthetics differ, but they generally share an emphasis on girly fashion and an appreciation for Lana Del Rey's music and aesthetic, which often focuses on girlhood and flirtation/seduction. This aesthetic contrasts with the visuals favored by most teenage girls, as Coquette variations tend to be "frillier" and more vintage in appearance than mainstream trends.
References to promiscuity, mental illness, and drug use sometimes appear within this context, reflecting themes common in teenage culture. The imagery associated with Coquette aligns with conventional Western standards of attractiveness, with a significant portion of the community emphasizing appearance through fashion, makeup, and sometimes body type.
Nymphet[]
Nymphet, also sometimes referred to as Vintage Americana Coquette, is an aesthetic based on a character trope originated by Vladimir Nabokov - "Lolita", published in 1955 and its movie adaptations from 1962 and 1997. Nymphet is an illusion created in the mind of Humbert Humbert, the (unreliable) main character and narrator of both the films and book. For the term, it is used by Humbert as a way to justify his predatory actions towards 12 year old Dolores Haze, his victim, by portraying her as sexually precocious and actually desiring him. Even though this style has problematic origins, many users enjoy Dolores’s fashion sense without romanticizing her abuse.
At around 2014, on Tumblr, young women took on this trope for themselves, as it was an aesthetic surrounding femininity, tragedy, and burgeoning sexuality. Contemporary pop culture involved a lot of content relating to teenage girlhood and the drama/romanticism of growing up quickly and being involved with risqué behavior. Lana Del Rey and her album Born to Die is a main inspiration in the aesthetic. Because of the era the book Lolita takes place in, this aesthetic centers around vintage Americana imagery and the 1950s schoolgirl look.
Dark Nymphet[]
Dark Nymphet, also known as Dark Coquette, is a coquette substyle rooted in '50s and '60s coquette culture. It is closely related to the Femme Fatale Hollywood archetype, although it has more youthful, Nymphet themes, than seen in traditional femme fatale. Vamps typically embody beauty, mystery, seduction, and danger. Cocktail dresses, evening gowns or pencil dresses and fitted suits all belong to fashion associated with Vamps, the outfits often finished with furs, veiled hats, but also lace, ruffles, and bows, and always with killer heels. This aesthetic also has influence from Kinderwhore and other darker aesthetics, with a more ‘messy’ look popular. Dark red and black are the most popular colors.
Vamp icons include, but are not limited to, Marilyn Monroe, Sharon Stone, Lana Del Rey, Mary Astor, Angelina Jolie, Gloria Swanson, and so on.
Dollette[]
Dollette is an interpretation of Coquette that highly started to spread in popularity in the 2020s. It can be largely found on Pinterest and TikTok. The aesthetic is largely based on fashion and hyperfeminine visual cues such as florals, ballet, the color pink, flowers, and makeup. This is what most people imagine when they think of Coquette. Apart from Nymphet, it is largely inspired by Pink Princess, Pink Parisian, Delicate Sweet, and Balletcore.
This trend is also highly associated with the secondhand clothing online retailer Depop. Coquette came to be a search term encompassing delicate and feminine fashion from the early 2000s, as well as Japanese brands that fit the aesthetic. Many items in this aesthetic became highly desirable and expensive, with lots of hype surrounding the pieces, especially the Bebe milkmaid top.
Dollette style is all about femininity, charm, and a touch of flirtatious allure. This style often combines elements of vintage fashion with a modern twist, focusing on delicate fabrics, soft pastel colors, ruffles, and lace. Coquette fashion, as the name implies, is designed to enhance the wearer's charm, and is inspired by a blend of historical eras such as the Victorian age and the playful silhouettes of the 1950s.
Coquette style celebrates the power of feminine allure and romantic elegance. It draws inspiration from fashion icons such as Audrey Hepburn, whose timeless grace perfectly embodies the ethos of this style. Key elements include high-waist skirts, lace blouses, ribbon details, and chic accessories like pearl necklaces or small, dainty handbags.
Farmer's Daughter[]
Farmer's Daughter is a more Country-like variation on the Coquette aesthetic where the visuals revolve around the character of a farmer's daughter, a Nymphet interpretation of a girl living in rural American farmland who is hyper-feminine and sexually precocious. This is in contrast with the actual aesthetic preferences of women in rural America. There is a lot of similarity with Nymphet, because of the Americana elements, as well as Trailer Park Princess because of the trashy look.
This aesthetic is largely on Pinterest and TikTok.
Coconut Girl[]
Coconut Girl (also known as Malibu Barbie or Key West Kitten) centers around the Coquette interpretation of tropical beaches typically associated with Florida from the 1960s to the 2000s. It creates an atmosphere that expresses the femininity and youth associated with young women vacationing during the summertime. Although it is considered a Coquette subtype, Coconut Girl is also associated with Barbiecore and Bimbocore, and is often called Malibu Barbie. Key West Kitten is very similar to Bubblegum Coquette in terms of bright colors as well as hyperfeminine/kawaii aesthetic overlap.
Waif[]
Waif is a type of blogger who posts content relating to beautiful, intelligent, self-destructive, and manipulative teenage girls. Arguably, it can be seen as a continuation of Heroin Chic, and it was influenced by Dark Coquette, Dark Balletcore the Pro-Ana/thinspo community, and the humor of the podcast The Red Scare. In addition to aesthetic images, much of this information comes from memes, Whisper confessions, and text posts of things happening within their personal lives.
What distinguishes this aesthetic from the previous aesthetics above is the persona of these bloggers. Specifically, the memes and text posts produced have a flippant or egocentric tone. However, these girls are using it as an expression of their mental illness. In addition to the glamour of independent and precocious lives of parties, money, and influence, there are multiple references to drug use, depression, eating disorders, and the desire to gain male attention from their looks.
Waif isn’t really a seperate type of Coquette but rather a representation of the more toxic and dark side of the Coquette aesthetic.
Winter Fairy Coquette[]
Winter Fairy Coquette is a presentation of warm clothing in a coquette - fairy grunge aesthetic. It is also called Winter Bimbo.
Since coquette and fairy grunge are very different, this fashion style ranges from looking delicate like coquette and softie - to the torn and harsh textures and fantastical aspect of fairy grunge and avant apocalypse.
The clothing colors are predominantly white, but may include some pastels, beige, light brown, and dark colors for variety.
Gloomy Coquette[]
Not to be confused with Dark Coquette/Dark Nymphet. Gloomy Coquette, also sometimes called Delicate Sweet, is gloomier version of Dollette, which includes gloomy and desaturated visuals associated with girlhood, angels, nature, dolls, and reading.
Morute is sometimes confused with Gloomy Coquette, but differs in that it includes morbid and creepy imagery such as graveyards, creepy dolls, bruises, insects, and trauma-related imagery, to give some examples. Morute can also look similar to Kinderwhore and Dollcore, which also share visuals with Gloomy Coquette.
Unlike Dark Coquette, Gloomy Coquette is still similar to Dollette and uses pink and light feminine clothing. Trailer Park Princess also overlaps a lot with Gloomy Coquette, although the latter is more overtly sexual and trashy, with lingerie as well as bondage items/clothing similar to the Babygirl aesthetic.
Bubblegum Coquette[]
Bubblegum Coquette can be seen as both a sub genre of coquette and Bimbocore, focused on nostalgia for people born from the late 90s to mid 2000s, who experienced the 2000s and early 2010s as children, thus seeing the McBling and 2014 Girly aesthetics of the time through a childish perspective. It is very similar to the Babygirl aesthetic.
Bubblegum Coquette also has similar motifs to Nymphet, such as holding onto adolescence whilst being grown up and enjoying what it comes with it.
Incorporating the Nymphet, Bimbocore and Jojifuku/Yume Kawaii aesthetics, Bubblegum Coquette is a bright pink sub genre of Coquette. It's centered around the early 2000s childhood nostalgia, cotton candy, bows, pastries, roller skates, lollipops and all pink things.
Trailer Park Princess[]
The Trailer Park Princess aesthetic combines Nymphet and Gloomy Coquette with a more trashy, sexy, adult look, with lingerie and even bondage gear being some of the common visuals along with trailer parks, plastic tiaras, and Vintage Americana. It is also somewhat influenced by McBling, and is somewhat similar to Bubblegum Coquette except less childish/innocent and more mature/trashy. There is also a strong influence from 60s fashion, particularly the Dolly Girl look, which is why it is sometimes called ‘60’s Babydoll’.
Blokette[]
Blokette was coined by Nymphet Alumni in late 2022, combining Coquette and Blokecore aesthetics. The blokette aesthetic also takes inspiration from Balletcore, Waif, and Indie Sleaze aesthetics.
Buckle Bunny[]
A combination of Trailer Park Princess and Farmer's Daughter, Buckle Bunny focuses on a Coquette interpretation of the Cowgirl aesthetic.
Tradcath Coquette[]
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Controversies[]
- Many people continue to associate the Coquette aesthetic with the Nymphet persona, due to its origins in a mid-2010s Tumblr community that used that archetype. Despite the aesthetic's evolution towards less sexualized imagery, Nymphet-related content frequently appears in searches for Coquette-inspired fashion and visuals.
- The aesthetic has, at times, been observed to include elements that romanticize disordered eating, such as thinness, fragility, and restrictive diets, mirroring some symptoms of anorexia.
- Certain Coquette-derived fashion styles have incorporated elements that constitute cultural appropriation. Examples include styles that stereotype Russian culture (e.g., "Winter Bimbo") or sexualize and appropriate elements of Catholic iconography (e.g., "Tradcath Coquette").
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