Honestly, i wouldnt worry about looking too androgynous for coquette, its not an aesthetic made for extremaly woman-ly looking people anyway, as dodgy as that sounds.

But to answer your question, faunlet is a more masculine version of coquette, but other androgynous fashion aesthetics include most of the academia styles, indie and skater and grunge are pretty neutral as well

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