I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR THIS ASWELL

But maybe soft grunge? Idk

Dark Academia

For me because, I'm kinda masculine, but feminine.

androgynous

Ngl dark and light academia are feminine and masculine

I think maybe dark academia? Also maybe weirdcore. but those are more like genderless, and not both genders. There are no bigender aesthetics it seems. We got the girls the gays, and the thems.